Category: Marriage

  • Getting Married Saved My Life

    In this ever-evolving genderless world we call the New Enlightenment, to suggest that a husband serves a role as protector of his wife and children is a most politically-incorrect concept, if not outright inflammatory to those feminists among us. But don’t tell that to my wife. She readily admits to appreciating this traditional male function. …

  • The Tale of Three Wedding Rings

    The Tale of Three Wedding Rings

    The wedding ring has long symbolized endless, eternal love.  A circle, with no beginning or end, is said to symbolize infinity. A gold wedding band first adorned the fourth finger of my left hand on September 2, 1972.  I planned to wear it forever. Now, three wedding rings later, I have a story to share…

  • The Last Dollar

    The Last Dollar

    Our local church has encouraged families to meet in small groups to build faith and community.   Twice a month, our Friends of Faith group meets to discuss a topic/chapter in our latest book of choice.  This week’s discussion group started as usual with some small talk, as we sampled the light hors d’oeuvres, followed…

  • They Are Always Watching

    They Are Always Watching

    The title of the opinion piece caught my eye. “Dear militant feminists, stop messing it up for the rest of us.” The author, Carol Roth, is a “recovering” investment banker, bestselling author of “The Entrepreneur Equation,” and television news contributor.  The article (1) expresses her fears that good manners are being killed because some women…

  • A Rendezvous with Rosa

    A Rendezvous with Rosa

    We arrived on time for our divine appointment — we just didn’t realize we had one. My wife and I decided to spend a few days in St. Augustine, Florida, touring the historical sites, exploring the eclectic shops and boutiques, and sampling the local cuisine. An arts festival was in full bloom and artists were…

  • Avoiding the Chainsaw-Toting Mama  –     A Mother’s Day Reflection

    Avoiding the Chainsaw-Toting Mama – A Mother’s Day Reflection

    A recent email from my favorite tool equipment company has suggested that Moms want to get their yard-work done quickly and get back to what truly matters, family.  Moms, so says the email, deserve the very best.  The headline of the ad-mail reads “Dear MOM, Happy Mother’s Day.  Love, STIHL.” The implication being that lightweight,…

  • Daddy’s Easter Basket

    I saw a bumper sticker recently that read, “If you really believe  Jesus rose from the dead, inform your face.”  Christians are the Resurrection people and joy should be the hallmark of our lives.  If not, we may need to prayerfully evaluate our relationship with the Lord.  I know I have had to do that…

  • What Do Husbands Want for Valentine’s Day?

    What Do Husbands Want for Valentine’s Day?

    “I have a question for you.” That’s a sentence I hear a lot…from my wife.  While we dated, it was an expected comment as we both sought to grow in our relationship and get to know each other.  Now, as a married couple, it is often how she seeks to get my thoughts or opinions…

  • Groundhog Morality

    Groundhog Morality

    Today, February 2nd is Groundhog Day when tradition holds that if a groundhog sees his shadow, he will return to his burrow and we will have six more weeks of Winter. Punxsutawney Phil, the famous Pennsylvania groundhog, saw his shadow this morning, so springtime in the North may be delayed.  Yet his Southern cousin, General…

  • You Want Me to Buy What?

    You Want Me to Buy What?

    One of our daughters and her one-year-old son stopped by the house recently for dinner.  She had just returned from a visit to the pediatrician where she learned that her son only had a cold and not the flu.  While there, the doctor also determined he had a worse-than-average diaper rash. Hearing my wife and…