Making the Most of Every Opportunity

Today I took a step back to readjust my perspective, refocus my priorities, and  recalibrate my values.

We live in an age of distractions as multiple media outlets flood the digital ethos for our attention.  Facebook rants politicize seemingly every issue. The meaning of words continue to be distorted, and sexual identities are growing so fast that we may run out of letters in the alphabet to describe them.  It is a time of chaos and confusion.

In the meantime, I am searching for the best pesticide to kill Japanese beetles, the right color to paint a bedroom, and the latest gimmick to improve my golf game.

Why my sudden pause to stop and inhale a dose of reality?

You see, I just heard that a friend has died after a four-year battle with brain cancer.  A niece is struggling to deal with the growing dementia of her father (my brother-in-law).  And another friend is battling drug addiction.  

It happens every day, right?  Yes, but as these particular happenings are occurring close to home, I realize how easy it is to be consumed by divisive politics or obsessed with one’s personal desires and interests. 

Ephesians 5:15-17 reminds us to:  “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise,making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.”

By now, you may think I have gone from preaching to meddling.  Not really.  This is more of a personal reflection I decided to share with you.  I wrote this one for myself.  

I pray that I can find a way to “make the most of every opportunity.”  

And, nowadays, there are plenty of opportunities.

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  1. Katy Hall



  2. Zoom Bear

    Your blogs are always so timely :). I enjoy them all even though I don’t comment very often. Appreciate you sharing your gift of communication with us!

    Take care and Happy Fourth!

    Cathy Rhodenizer



  3. Hal Henderson


    Thank you for sharing your reflection to “make the most of every opportunity”… so meaningful and timely. I am finding as I grow older, and older, and even older, that a growing percentage of my friends and family face life’s challenges of illness, financial concerns and grief from loss of loved ones. Sandy’s and my prayer lists have never been longer than today. Yet, it is so important to “enjoy the moment” and make the most of every opportunity because we are blessed beyond measure and know that our Lord will be there beside us as we deal with life’s challenges… and try to help family and friends deal with life’s challenges in their lives.

    As always, thanks for sharing your reflections… they mean a lot!


    Sent from my iPad



  4. Mark Closson

    Thank you Buddy. I needed that.


  5. srinblue1952

    Hi Buddy, I pray you’re doing well. I’m enjoying your emails. It’s been a long time since we have been together but you’re never far from my heart. Please keep them coming. I’ve been in Monroe for about two years now and finally feeling at home. 50 years in ATL will do that to you! Please give my love to your bride and let her know you’re both in my prayers. Peace always Sr Margaret Margaret McAnoy



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