Author: Buddy McElhannon
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Pursuing the Wow in Marriage
It’s hard to believe that I could learn something about love and marriage from my two-year-old grandson. But I did. In church, no less. Years ago, my wide-awake, perpetually curious two-year-old grandson sat in the Crying Room at church. While he was well-behaved on this particular Sunday morning, a nearby four-year-old could not sit still.…
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Do Fathers with Daughters Live Longer?
Recently, a surprising study from a Polish university revealed that fathers with daughters live longer. Even more interesting is that the extended lifespan is also impacted by the number of daughters a father has. What about sons? Nope, sons have little effect on a father’s life span. Having raised two sons, I doubt that conclusion. …
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Idol Worship?
Idol worship. The phrase conjures up all kinds of images — ancient biblical names like Baal and Moloch, and modern idols like sex, power, money, and fame. I recently discovered another blogger, BeautyBeyondBones.com, who shared a reflection titled, The Idol of Self. It was an honest, open admission that anorexia had nearly claimed her…
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My Oxford Year and Secular Rom-Coms
This past weekend, my wife and I were in the mood for a good romantic comedy. Netflix had just released what appeared to be another Hallmark-like rom-com, My Oxford Year. To our surprise, it proved to be more of a tearjerker than an emotionally satisfying feel-good experience. It was also a perfect example of the…
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Tender Mercies
Over the years, my faith has grown in spurts. But it is growing. I have long purposed to always-be-a-student in regard to my faith journey. I worship the God of the Old and New Testaments, and as a Christian, I delight in discovering some new insight that draws me closer to my Creator, my…
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Shooting My Age
I shot my age recently. Well, sort of. Every golfer dreams of shooting an 18-hole round with a score at or below their age. Since my good friend Tom Mitchell did it last year, my goal has been to do the same. Of course, getting older helps — as long as I stay physically the same. …
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My First Calculator
I have lived long enough to witness more technological changes in one lifetime than at any other period in history. One might describe it as a journey from turning knobs to touching screens. And the changes just keep coming. Music alone has evolved from 33 RPM and 45 RPM records to 8-track tapes, cassette players,…
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Fear Stalks a Hospital Waiting Room
Maybe it’s because it was Friday the 13th. Maybe because it was the waiting room of a Cardiac Surgical Center in one of the largest hospitals here in Augusta. Maybe because you are sitting in a room with people who share the same heavy anxieties. But fear stalks a hospital waiting room like a hungry…
